Showing posts with label parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parenting. Show all posts

Saturday, August 30, 2025

My 3 Unexpected visitors

When Children Teach Us About Life


Yesterday turned out differently than I had planned. I was out in a field near our home, just spending some relaxed time while my son rode his bike. As I sat on my lesso, enjoying the breeze, three little girls—probably around four years old—wandered over and asked, “Can we sit here with you?”

Of course, I said yes. They settled in, chatting away like old friends, and before long they pulled me into their world of games. They “cooked” imaginary meals and kept asking if the food tasted good. Their laughter, their stories, their boldness—it was pure joy.

What amazed me most was their openness. Here were three little girls, meeting me for the first time, yet choosing to trust, to play, and to share their hearts without fear. Children really do carry such beautiful souls.

Later, when I left, I accidentally forgot my book in the field. Whene remembered later, my daughter found it right where I had left it—untouched. The same children who so freely invited me into their world also respected what was not theirs.

As I thought about it, I was reminded of Jesus’ words: to enter the Kingdom of Heaven, we must be like little children. Their simplicity, their purity, their ability to love without hesitation—it’s a lesson for all of us.

My son enjoyed our time together, and I came home with a heart full. Sometimes, parenting lessons don’t just come from our own kids—they come from the little souls God sends across our path.

Monday, April 14, 2025

Today's Scripture & Prayer for Children Spiritual Wellness

Today's Scripture & Prayer for Children

Spiritual Wellness

Scripture
Acts 3:6 AMPC
But Peter said, Silver and gold (money) I do not have; but what I do have, that I give to you: in [the use of] the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, walk!  

Reflection for Children
Dear child, do you know Who lives in you?  

Jesus is with you every day, even when you can't see Him. Just like Peter and John, who walked with Jesus and saw His amazing power, you also carry His name and love wherever you go! They believed in Jesus so much that when they met a man who could not walk, they simply spoke His name, and the man stood up!  
You have the same power to make a difference because Jesus lives in you. With His name and the Holy Spirit, you can be strong, brave, and kind to others. You can pray for someone, encourage a friend, and bring hope to those around you. Jesus wants you to know that you are His child, and He has given you a heart full of faith and courage!  

Prayer
Lord Jesus, thank You for living in me and for always being with me. You are powerful, and You help me to be strong and kind. Help me to remember that I can do great things through You, just like Peter and John did. Let me shine Your love everywhere I go, and never be afraid because You are always with me! In Jesus’ name, amen.  

#RaisingaGodlygeneration #AriseAndShine #ahighercalling #HappyNewWeek

Friday, March 28, 2025

Teach the Word! Model the Word!



Parenting Friday: Teach Them!

Today's Scripture:
Deuteronomy 6:7 (AMPC)  
"You shall whet and sharpen them so as to make them penetrate, and teach and impress them diligently upon the [minds and] hearts of your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down and when you rise up."

Reflection
As parents, we are presented with one of the most important callings: guiding our children in their spiritual journey. But ask yourself:  
✅Who is teaching your children the Word of God?  
✅Who is answering their questions about salvation and why it matters?  

While Sunday school is an invaluable step in planting the seeds of faith, it is not enough. The true nurturing of that seed takes place at home. Parents are the primary nurturers, the ones tasked with weeding out influences that don’t align with godly principles and watering the seed of faith daily. Yet, to do so effectively, we must first know how to identify those seedlings of growth and influence.  

Let us rise to this call diligently and prayerfully, shaping the next generation of believers as God intended.

Action Points for Parents:  
1. Be Intentional: Set time daily for family devotions and open discussions about faith. Create an atmosphere where your children feel safe asking questions.  
2. Model Faith: Children learn by example. Show them what a Christ-centered life looks like through your actions, words, and decisions.  
3. Strengthen Your Knowledge: Equip yourself with scriptural wisdom to confidently teach and nurture their faith journey.  
4. Partner with the Church: Complement Sunday school teaching by reinforcing lessons at home. Stay connected with teachers to understand what your children are learning.  
5. Pray Consistently: Commit your children and your role as a parent to prayer. Ask God for wisdom, patience, and guidance in fulfilling this divine responsibility.

Prayer
Lord, thank You for entrusting us with the incredible mandate of teaching our children Your Word. Help us to be diligent and faithful in this calling, knowing that the future generation depends on our teaching and modeling. May we guide our children in the way they should go and nurture their faith daily.  

Blessed be Your name, and may it never be said of us that we failed in this responsibility. We commit our families to You, Lord, trusting You for the grace and wisdom to lead them.  
In Jesus' name, amen. 🙏  

Sunday, February 9, 2025

Building Their spiritual muscles

Monday Blessing💕
Building Their spiritual muscles💪 
Scripture
Psalm 128:5 AMPCMay the Lord bless you out of Zion [His sanctuary], and may you see the prosperity of Jerusalem all the days of your life;

 Reflection
🌼 Teach them that without God all they do is in vain. But with Him they have help in everything they do. 
🌼They begin the week knowing that they have a God who is always with them.
🌼They begin their tasks and roles in school knowing that they have favor within them.
🌼Help them remember to incorporate Him in every thing today and be ready to testify of His goodness.

Prayer
Lord our eyes, our hope for our children is in You this new week. We choose to surrender them to You and to allow You to manifest Yourself in their everyday life. Glorify Yourself through them today.
In Jesus name, amen.

Have a blessed day 🙏

#Ariseandshine
#AHigherCalling
#RaisingaGodlygeneration

Monday, January 6, 2025

Teach Them to Walk in the Light

Teach Them to Walk in the Light

John 1:4- In Him was life, and the life was the Light of men.
Genesis 1:3- And God said, “Let there be light,” and there was light.
The world we live in is slowly but surely getting darker and darker. The sun may be shining physically, but spiritually things are changing. Our children are growing up In a time when grey areas are getting blurry, as the white seems to be fading. 
But we are not without hope—the light of the Lord cannot be vanquished. Wisdom brings forth light and illumination into the life of men. Access to the source of wisdom gives us the ability to overcome the darkness. Proverbs 1:7 - The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. And where we lack wisdom, we are commanded to ask for it from God.
The Holy Spirit Is here to help us as we prepare our children to be the light that cannot be hidden in their generation- Matthew 5: 14- You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden.
Help them to arise and shine everyday.

Action Points:
Daily Prayer and Scripture Reading: Encourage children to engage in daily prayer and Bible reading to strengthen their spiritual foundation and wisdom.

#RaisingaGodlygeneration #ahighercalling #AriseAndShine

Saturday, November 23, 2024

Stewardship and Our Children: A Sacred Responsibility

Stewardship and Our Children: A Sacred Responsibility
Scripture Focus:
"Whatever may be your task, work at it heartily (from the soul), as [something done] for the Lord and not for men,"- Colossians 3:23 AMPC
Action Points on Stewardship:
Model Stewardship:
✅Show your children by example what it means to be a steward of God’s gifts. Whether it’s your time, talents, or resources, demonstrate how to use them wisely and for God’s glory.
Teach Responsibility:
✅Encourage your children to take responsibility for their actions and belongings. Give them age-appropriate chores and responsibilities to instill a sense of duty and care.
Nurture Spiritual Growth:
✅Make prayer and the study of the Bible a regular part of your family’s routine. Encourage your children to develop their own personal relationship with God through daily devotions.
Encourage Generosity:
✅ Teach your children the value of giving. Whether it’s sharing their toys, giving to charity, or helping a friend, encourage acts of kindness and generosity.
Foster a Sense of Purpose:
✅Help your children understand that their lives have a greater purpose. Encourage them to seek and follow God’s plan for their lives, emphasizing that their talents and abilities are gifts to be used for His kingdom.
Promote Excellence:
✅Instill in your children a commitment to doing their best in all they do. Encourage them to work heartily, as for the Lord, and strive for excellence in their studies, activities, and relationships.
Financial Stewardship:
✅Teach your children basic financial principles such as saving, budgeting, and giving. Encourage them to understand that money is a tool to be used wisely and for the benefit of others.
Celebrate Achievements:
✅ Acknowledge and celebrate your children's efforts and achievements, big or small. This reinforces their understanding that their hard work and dedication are valued and appreciated.

By implementing these action points, we can help our children grow into responsible, compassionate, and God-honoring individuals who understand the true meaning of stewardship. Let’s work together to raise a generation that seeks to glorify God in all that they do.

Prayer for Our Children:
Lord, thank You for the gift of our children. They belong to You, and You have given them to us as stewards so that we can partner with You in bringing out that which You have planted in their lives for the extension of Your kingdom. Help us to help them understand that they are not here for themselves but for Your glory. May they understand that everything they are belongs to You. May they live lives that honor You and bring Your love into their worlds. Lord, may their hearts desire always be to hear the words, "well done, good and faithful servant." Bless their going out and their coming in every day of their lives for the glory and honor of Your name. In Jesus' name, amen.
Shalom ☕❤️

Friday, November 8, 2024

Raising Godly Children: What can I do to get saved?

What can I do to get saved? This is a powerful question that each of us asks at one point in time, even our children. The sooner they are able to answer it, the better for them.

Scripture References
Acts 16:30 AMPC
"And he brought them out [of the dungeon] and said, Men, what is it necessary for me to do that I may be saved?"

Proverbs 22:6 (NIV)
"Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it."

Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (NIV):
"These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up."

Ephesians 6:4 (NIV)
"Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord."

Prayer:
Lord, thank You once again for the gift of children. Thank You because You entrust these gifts to us so that we may partner with You in raising them. Lord, this morning we pray for the salvation of our children. We know that it is never too early for them to receive Jesus as Lord and Savior. Today, Lord, may You give us opportunities to share this wonderful news of salvation with our children. May our role as parents not just be to take them to Sunday School, but may we realize that we have a bigger role in matters of salvation for our children. Give us the courage to speak to them and lead them to You so that they will have the hope of seeing You and dwelling in Your presence. We bless You, Lord, because we know our children belong to You. Help them and help us today. In Jesus' name, amen.

Action Points for daily living 

1. Model Faith in Everyday Life:
Demonstrate your faith through your actions and decisions. Let your children see you pray, read the Bible, and live out Christian values. Your example is a powerful tool in teaching them about God's love and grace.

2. Create Opportunities for Spiritual Conversations:
   Engage your children in discussions about faith, salvation, and God's word. Use everyday moments to talk about God's presence and His plans for their lives. Encourage them to ask questions and express their thoughts and feelings about their spiritual journey.

3. Involve Them in Faith-Based Activities:
Beyond Sunday School, involve your children in church activities, family devotions, and community service. These experiences help them understand the importance of faith in action and build a strong foundation for their spiritual growth.

Shalom ☕💞

Friday, November 1, 2024

Nurturing Our Children: A Path Guided by Faith

 Nurturing Our Children: A Path Guided by Faith


Scripture:

Psalm 37:23 AMPC

"The steps of a [good] man are directed and established by the Lord when He delights in his way [and He busies Himself with his every step]."

Prayer:

Lord, thank You for the gift of our children. Thank You because it is only You who knows their destiny. Thank You for entrusting us to bring them up in partnership with You. Our Father and our God, bless our children this holiday. Shine Your light upon their paths. Bless their going out and their coming in. Lord, may all they do bring glory and honor to Your name. Thank You because You have good plans for them. Thank You because You have endowed them with different gifts. May You help us to fan the flame that You have put in them so that they can shine for Your glory today and always. May this new month bring them times of refreshment and joy. May they love You and desire to know You more each day. In Jesus' name, amen.

Reflection:

God has gifted each of us differently so that we can bring glory to His name in various ways. As Eric Liddell once said, "I believe God made me for a purpose, but He also made me fast, and when I run, I feel God's pleasure." There are no unspiritual abilities, just misused abilities. Reflect on how much pleasure God is getting out of your life.

Action Points:

1. Recognize and Celebrate Gifts:

   - Identify the unique gifts and talents in your children. Celebrate these gifts and encourage them to use their abilities to honor God.

   - Create opportunities for your children to explore and develop their talents, whether through sports, arts, academics, or other activities.

2. Guide with Faith:

   - Use Psalm 37:23 as a guiding principle in your parenting. Trust that God is directing your steps and the steps of your children.

   - Pray regularly for your children, asking God to guide their paths and help them grow in their faith.

3. Create a Supportive Environment:

   - Foster an environment at home where your children feel safe, loved, and supported. Encourage open communication and be a source of wisdom and guidance.

   - Involve your children in family devotions and discussions about faith, helping them to see how their daily lives connect with their spiritual journey.

4. Encourage Service:

   - Teach your children the value of serving others. Find ways for your family to serve together in your community, church, or other organizations.

   - Highlight the importance of using their gifts to make a positive impact on the world around them.

5. Reflect and Adjust:

   - Regularly reflect on your parenting approach and make adjustments as needed. Seek God's wisdom in how to best support and guide your children.

   - Encourage your children to reflect on their own lives and how they can align their actions with God's purpose for them.

By incorporating these action points, you can help your children grow in their faith and use their unique gifts to bring glory to God. May this new month bring times of refreshment and joy for your family. Shalom! ☕💕


Saturday, October 26, 2024

Nurturing Our Future: Guiding Our Children Through the Long Holiday

 


 Nurturing Our Future: Guiding Our Children Through the Long Holiday

Scripture:

Psalm 95:3 AMPC 

For the Lord is a great God, and a great King above all gods.

Prayer:

Lord, I thank You for the gift of children. Thank You for entrusting them to us. We are grateful for the academic year that we have had and the progress You have brought them. We appreciate Your provision, protection, and their total wellbeing. Thank You for the good plans You have for their lives this holiday. We trust that You are protecting them and safeguarding them all around. Lord, thank You for blessing them in all things, and we look forward to a great holiday together with our children. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper, and any tongue that rises up against them You shall condemn in Jesus' name. Thank You for the heritage that belongs to our children, for indeed You will bless their going out and their coming in from today henceforth. In Jesus' name, amen.

Shalom ☕💖

Action Points for Parents

1. Express Gratitude Daily: Take a moment each day to thank God for your children and the progress they have made. This practice fosters a positive mindset and acknowledges the blessings in your life.

2. Pray for Protection and Guidance: Regularly pray for your children's safety, wellbeing, and guidance. Trust that God is watching over them and has good plans for their lives.

3. Engage in Meaningful Conversations: Use this holiday period to have deep and meaningful conversations with your children. Discuss their experiences, dreams, and any concerns they might have.

4. Plan Family Activities: Organize activities that the whole family can enjoy together. This strengthens family bonds and creates lasting memories.

5. Encourage Positive Affirmations: Speak positive words over your children. Affirm their strengths and encourage them to pursue their passions and interests.

6. Monitor Their Wellbeing: Keep an eye on your children's physical, emotional, and spiritual health. Ensure they have a balanced routine that includes rest, play, and learning.

7. Create a Safe Environment: Make your home a safe and nurturing space where your children feel loved and secure. Address any issues that might cause them stress or anxiety.

8. Celebrate Achievements: Celebrate your children's achievements, no matter how small. This boosts their confidence and motivates them to keep striving for excellence.

By incorporating these action points into your daily routine, you can create a supportive and loving environment for your children to thrive. Remember, your role as a parent is crucial in shaping their future. Let's make this holiday season a time of growth, joy, and togetherness.  

Let us raise a Godly Generation!

Friday, October 18, 2024

Made to Last Forever: A Parent’s Role in Preparing Children for Eternity

Made to Last Forever: A Parent’s Role in Preparing Children for Eternity
Our life today is a preparation ground for what lies in eternity. As parents, our time on earth is not just about our own journey but also about guiding our children towards their eternal future. The question then is, how are we preparing our children for that eternal journey?
Everyday life should be lived in the light of eternity, and this is especially true for parents. There is a grander purpose for our children than just this life. Our parenting goals should reflect our eternal aspirations for them. The deeds of this life are the destiny of eternity.
Matthew Henry wisely said, “It ought to be the business of every day to prepare for our final day.” As parents, it is our responsibility to instill this mindset in our children.
Scripture reminds us of this eternal perspective:
Proverbs 22:6 (NIV):“Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.”
Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (NIV): “These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.”
Ephesians 6:4 (NIV): “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.”
Action Steps for Parents:
1. Model Eternal Values: Live out your faith and values daily, showing your children what it means to live with eternity in mind.
2. Teach and Discuss: Regularly talk with your children about spiritual matters and the importance of living for eternity.
3. Encourage Reflection: Help your children reflect on their actions and decisions in light of their eternal significance.
Let us, as parents, live each day with eternity in mind, knowing that our actions today shape our children’s forever.

Friday, October 11, 2024

Honor


Ephesians 6:1-3: "Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 'Honor your father and mother'—which is the first commandment with a promise—'so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.'"

Honoring parents is not a pleasant suggestion to children; it is a command that has a promise attached to it. Failure to follow this command affects the quality of life our children live and their longevity (Proverbs 20:20: "If someone curses their father or mother, their lamp will be snuffed out in pitch darkness").

As parents, we must be vigilant to what is happening in the lives of our children. Pride and selfishness are idols that drive our children to dishonor us as parents. Whereas it may not look dangerous as it begins, any form of disobedience is a building block for those idols. What may look cute and harmless can grow into an oak of a habit that is not desirable in the life of the child as they grow into adulthood (Proverbs 22:6: "Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it").

Parents must take firm action on any behavior that does not honor God, no matter how harmless it may look (Proverbs 13:24: "Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them"; Proverbs 29:15: "The rod of correction imparts wisdom, but a child left undisciplined disgraces its mother").

Action Points for Parents

1. Model Respect and Honor: Demonstrate respect and honor in your own relationships, including how you treat your spouse, parents, and others. Children learn by observing, and your behavior sets a powerful example (1 Peter 2:17: "Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the emperor").

2. Consistent Discipline: Implement consistent and loving discipline that aligns with biblical principles. Address disobedience promptly and appropriately to prevent small issues from becoming larger problems (Hebrews 12:11: "No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it").

3. Open Communication: Foster an environment of open communication where children feel safe to express their thoughts and feelings. This helps build trust and allows you to guide them effectively (James 1:19: "My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry").